So people have been asking.....

I've been asked multiple times how I forgave and how I was able to let go and love him again. The truth is, I NEVER stopped loving him. I was so hurt and felt so betrayed but, I did forgive him, because I loved him. I couldn't change him. I couldn't make him be who I wanted him to be. I could however, be who I needed to be. I could be an example and hope in turn he would want  what mattered the most. I continuously was pleading with my father in heaven to help him change.  To change his heart. I was going about it the wrong way. When I finally humbled myself and let go miracles happened. Heavenly Father works in mysterious ways. I am a living example that he does answer prayers. He is fully aware of our situation and when the time is right he will answer them in his own way. I have a very strong testimony of the atonement. People can change and do change. In the scriptures the lord tells us that.. " I, the Lord, will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all men." We are not the deciders of who is worthy or not worthy and whether a person can or cannot chance. We are to love and be examples. Everyone deserves a change and everyone is in need of the light we poses. Don't give up on them, the savior never once gave up on us.

Love always,

K